(786) 570-4141
"And you? When will you begin that
long journey into yourself?"
-Rumi
Site Updated - 07 Dec, 2024
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I will respond to all initial text messages, but communication will pause until I know you've read the entire homepage.
For my So-cal trips, the 1st-7th of each month, I will be based in OC and cover LA, San Diego, and Palm Springs. Somatic Tantra session pre-bookings will determine which city I cover each of those days. I love staying in Palm Springs as well so I will try to coordinate back to back days there.
Based on Vegas the remainder of each month and will be available for travel within the US.
I don’t let my phone rule my life and keep it on do not disturb at all times. Feel free to reach out same day, but I may not see it right away.
For my So-Cal Trips, the 1st-7th of each month
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Hi, I'm Finn. With a background in aerial arts, I started massage a decade ago with an interest in athletic recovery and injury prevention. Over the years, I discovered there's so much more the body is capable of, and just how deeply our thoughts, behaviors, and emotions are linked to the body.
Life's challenges have the potential to distort the body and with it the mind. Of course there are psychiatric conditions where there's an added level of intervention required, but the root of many mental and emotional problems stem from the body. Free the body and you can then free the mind.
My primary focus is opening the door to what's possible through a combination of bodywork, breathwork, long-duration stretches, and prolonged contractions. These methods work to connect the mind and body, release fascial restrictions, and override the nervous system that keeps muscles stuck in held contractions. This can also trap us physiologically in an unending loop of fight, flight, or freeze, causing consequences behaviorally and emotionally .
I also understand Your needs and wants will vary over time. Sometimes you may need a therapeutic session to address injury, overuse, or posture. You may want something relaxing with touch that feels good when you're stressed or sad. In a world that's increasingly becoming disconnected, with social isolation a growing and unnatural problem, you may need a cuddle session. For gay men, sexual repression is common due to social factors or sexual assault. In these cases, fear and emotion tied to repression live in the body. The goal is to free this energy through Tantra and meditation techniques.
More information on each type of session can be found in the dropdown menu, along with the science behind how stress and trauma get trapped in the body, and books I recommend.
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Booking Inquiry Requirements
My passion is helping people and creating genuine connection.
Please understand I don't offer sex or superficial experiences. I need the men I work with to be open, honest, and respectful. There are plenty of other options out there if your focus is purely sexual gratification. The work I do requires me to show up with an open heart. I can't do my best work if there's an intention for more than I offer or other than what the work is designed for.
For these reasons, I ask you to send:
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A face photo - No response will be given without a photo.
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No explicit language
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No sexual inquiries, asking if I’m nude, or if you can touch me.
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Any allergies or relevant medical conditions
Please also include which city you're in, dates and times that would work for you, and which type of session/length you'd like.
I cover Orange County, Los Angeles, Palm Springs, and San Diego from the 1st to the 7th of each month. I only offer outcalls when I'm traveling (for now). I'll be in Las Vegas for the rest of the month.
The dates I'm in each city will vary month to month based on pre-bookings. My Telegram is linked above in the blue icon, where you can share when I'll be in your area, so you can check my availability if your schedule doesn't allow for pre-booking.
Please Text me at (786) 570-4141
There is a chat feature on the site I cant get rid of, please don't use that.
“Do not feel lonely, the entire universe is inside you”
-Rumi
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Rates
Descriptions of each option can be found in the menu bar at the top
Therapeutic massage and stretching sessions are $200 per hour and can be mixed and matched. I'm happy to do as long of a session as you'd like. Each
focus area generally requires an hour.
Breathwork and Somatic work - $400 / Two Hours
Cuddle Sessions – $200 per hour
Tantra – Starts at $600 for two hours and can go as long as you'd like at $300 per hour after.
Outcalls to the Strip + $25 for parking.
I can't bring my table to hotels, but some rooms come with a table.
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Here is More information to give you a deeper understanding of the Mind/Body and a feel for the approach & intention of my work
The human body is an interconnected system that reflects not only our physical state but also our emotional and psychological experiences. Fascia, the connective tissue that envelops every muscle, bone, organ, and nerve, provides structural support, enables fluid movement, and plays a role in communication through its network of sensory nerves. When fascia becomes restricted due to trauma, injury, or poor posture, the effects ripple through the body, leading to pain, stiffness, and other dysfunctions.
Tensegrity, a principle borrowed from architecture, describes how stability is achieved through a balance of tension and compression. In the human body, bones act as the compressive elements, while fascia, muscles, and ligaments create tensional forces. This balance allows the body to remain upright, move efficiently, and absorb stress without collapsing. When tensegrity is disrupted, due to injury, poor posture, emotional stress, or physical activity that creates imbalances, the body compensates, leading to pain, restricted movement, and deeper systemic issues.
The autonomic nervous system, which governs our fight, flight, or freeze responses, interacts closely with fascia. Stress and trauma are not just mental experiences; they are processed and stored in the body. Prolonged stress can lead to muscle guarding and habitual postural patterns, which, over time, cause fascial adhesions and restrictions. During bodywork sessions, clients can experience emotional releases such as crying, laughing, or a profound sense of relief as tight fascia is released and the body lets go of held tension.
Breathing techniques also play a significant role in releasing stored tension and trauma. Deep, rhythmic breathing can activate altered states of consciousness, allowing individuals to access deeper layers of emotional and physical healing. This practice can lead to vivid insights, emotional breakthroughs, and even the resolution of long-held tension, complementing hands-on bodywork by helping the body relax and reset.
The body doesn’t differentiate between physical and emotional stress; both are processed and stored together. Chronic tension in the fascia can create tightness and adhesions that radiate pain and interfere with the body’s natural rhythms, such as circulation, lymphatic drainage, and organ function. Emotionally, unresolved trauma often manifests as chronic stress, heightened anxiety, or feelings of being stuck or overwhelmed. Over time, these patterns become embodied, showing up as tension in the fascia, muscles, and posture. Addressing these patterns holistically through a combination of bodywork, movement, and breath work, enables the body to let go of stored tension and begin the healing process.
Releasing fascial restrictions and restoring balance is about more than relieving physical pain; it creates space for emotional and psychological healing as well. addressing fascial health can unlock profound shifts, not only in physical mobility and comfort but also in emotional well-being and vitality. The body is far more than a mechanical system; it is a deeply intelligent, living network that reflects and holds our life experiences. When approached with curiosity, care, and respect, it has an incredible capacity for profound and lasting healing.
