(786) 570-4141
(786) 570-4141
Before I continue, to save you time if anything doesn’t work and to save myself from unwanted propositions, here is some information about what I do and don’t offer, rates, and how to book:
• Somatic Tantra Sessions are only offered as outcalls.
• I offer sessions starting at $400 for two hours, with an additional $200 for each hour after. Three hours is generally a good amount of time for first sessions, but if you have experience with breathwork or somatic work and would like to go longer, I offer 4-5+ hour sessions as well.
• After reading the full site, I require the following:
1. Acknowledgment that you have read the site and understand what I do, that you’re willing to put in the work on your end, and that you’re seeking something deeper and more meaningful than a superficial sensual experience.
2. A photo
3. Your city
4. The type of session and length you’d like
5. Dates and times that would work for you
6. Please share any allergies you may have
⁃ I ask that you plan ahead and prebook. I do a maximum of two sessions per day from Noon to Midnight. Feel free to reach out for same-day bookings, but I may not see your message right away.
⁃ Some people are ruled by sexual energy, preventing them from reaching deeper levels. If you wish to explore beyond this, I’m happy to work with you. If you’re looking for a massage with a happy ending, I don’t offer that and ask that you seek someone else.
⁃ I will respond to initial texts to verify that it’s me, but communication will pause until I receive the required information.
⁃ Questions are welcome, but no response will be given to sexually driven or explicit language.
⁃ I wear shorts during the session
-Please text my number, I won’t see it if you send me a message through the site.
All are welcome! However, due to the intensity of these sessions, I cannot perform this modality on anyone with the following conditions. Please take these conditions seriously, as this work can trigger episodes or worsen your condition:
• Cardiovascular disease (heart attacks, high blood pressure, angina)
• Psychosis
• Seizures
• Severe mental illness (generally considered if the condition required institutionalization or medication)
• Aneurysms
Take the Leap
These experiences, states of mind, and releases of tension are incredible and worth the effort required, but this is a team effort and please understand I will ask a lot from you. You’ll have two tasks that sound simple but are quite challenging. First, I’ll ask you to relax your body entirely, as if you were asleep, with no muscles engaged. This takes time, and I will help you get there. Second, I will guide you to breathe in a way that shifts you from your conscious mind into your body and subconscious.
I used to teach dance, and some people had two left feet and needed extra guidance to train their kinesthetic awareness. Similarly, some people have trouble breathing and may require extra attention, guidance, or bodywork to release and open up their breath, whether due to mental or physical blocks. During breathwork, you may experience lightheadedness, tingling, possible numbness, and a very dry mouth. You’ll need to push beyond these sensations while staying still—you’re capable of it! Taking a hot shower and clearing your sinuses before the session helps.
There will come a point where you’ll shift from your conscious mind, allowing your body to take over. This may be a challenge mentally, but let go and take the leap. You’ll be okay. Allow involuntary movement to come while remaining relaxed and not giving in to conscious movement. The body is wired for survival; it won’t harm itself. By tapping into these deeper, unexplored parts of yourself and consciousness, profound shifts can occur.
You might experience an intense euphoric state right away, but you may also need to let go of something first to get there. Please don’t assume that there’s nothing buried within you. Be open and willing to explore and feel whatever surfaces so it can release. Think of this as a “Hero’s Journey.” Life is beautiful and a gift, but it also presents us with challenges—stress, heartbreak, loss, disappointment, fear, injuries, surgeries, and so on. Or maybe you’ve experienced true darkness such as war, violence, abuse, or sexual assault. Unprocessed events, whether remembered or not, they can surface and must be allowed to play out to continue your journey to greener pastures.
Should something scary surface, the goal isn’t to conquer your inner demons but to integrate them as allies. They are parts of you, waiting to be accepted and given the chance to express and discharge the negative energy they hold in the body. Whatever the experience, no matter how bad, can be transformed into a force for good in your life rather than a destructive one. Bad things may have happened, but victimhood is a choice, along with all the negative emotions and consequences that come with that mindset. Acceptance, integration, and forgiveness are for your benefit. Negative energy can be converted into something beautiful.
It doesn’t happen all at once—this is a practice. The ability to relax, meditate, breathe, and let down your defenses to allow your body and subconscious to do the necessary work is a learned skill. Over time, this allows you to go deeper and deeper within. Sometimes stress or trauma arises when you’re ready to handle it, while other times it may bring new perspectives on ideas, beliefs, behaviors, or memories. Profound emotions, states of peace, full-body orgasms beyond belief, or even nothingness—where you exist in perfect stillness, both mentally and physically—are all possible. This can lead to deeply spiritual experiences.
How the session plays out
How the session plays out
We’ll begin with an intake where you can share as much or as little as you’d like, and over time, as we establish trust, you may feel comfortable sharing more.
1.I’ll ask what your hopes or goals are for this session and future sessions.
2.What are your favorite areas to be touched or massaged?
3.Are there any areas or types of touch you don’t like? If so, what’s the reason for that? Depending on the cause, I may ask if you’re willing to explore those areas.
4.Have you had any major events, experiences, injuries, or surgeries that may be relevant?
5.Where in your body do you feel restricted or as though you hold stress (either physical or mental)?
6.Do you have any fears or insecurities?
7.I’ll ask if you’re comfortable with pelvic floor work. Pelvic floor work is done with gloves and uses sustained pressure on internal muscles that are difficult to release. These muscles can get stuck in contraction due to stress and activation of the fight, flight, or freeze response. When this happens, the body involuntarily contracts muscles in the body—arms come in, shoulders rise, abs tighten, and the pelvic floor, including the anus, clenches. Or, in the case of freezing, the energy and hormones are sent out but the action isn’t completed, leaving that energy trapped (more details are available in the dropdown menu).
After this intake, I’ll ask you to undress and stand facing left, right, front, and center so I can observe your posture and how your body holds tension.
Due to the slow pace of this work and the time it takes to help you reach a truly relaxed state, the minimum session length is two hours, starting at $400. If longer sessions aren’t within your means, $200 for each additional hour is available. Three hours tends to be ideal for beginners, while those with more experience may benefit from 4-5+ hour sessions. The beginning of the session will focus on establishing intimacy and trust with your body and mind. We will do intense breathwork while I perform relaxing massage and pelvic floor work, culminating in a full-body climax and a shift in your nervous system to a parasympathetic state. At this point, I’ll shift to bodywork, using techniques like myofascial release, craniosacral therapy, and trigger point modalities.
The pace of this work is slow, focusing on finding areas of stored tension. I will apply very light pressure at first, and your body will eventually stop recognizing my hand as an intrusion. When it opens up and allows me in, I’ll sink deeper, stretching the tissue slowly so that the body remains receptive and doesn’t armor itself and push me out.
Each muscle in the body is interconnected through a continuous web of fascia, a tissue stronger than steel that weaves around every muscle, organ, nerve, vessel, and bone. Fascia holds everything in place and gives our bodies structure, but it can also store trapped emotions. A distortion in one area of the body can affect the whole system, so when tension is released, it can ripple through your body. If I work on one area and you feel involuntary movement or twitching in another area, or if you experience an emotional release (such as laughing, crying, or yelling), these are normal responses. The key is to stay present, relaxed, and allow these involuntary responses to happen without resisting or controlling them.
This process, similar to exercise, is about time under tension. It can take 30 minutes to an hour to work through one area of the body. The session length is your decision, but for Somatic Tantra, my mental and physical limit is around six hours.
As an add-on to Somatic Tantra sessions, if you want extra time for connection, cuddling, or to talk and spend time together after the Somatic Tantra session, I’m happy to provide that too. ❤️
More tools, such as hot stones, advanced pelvic floor work, meditation, stretching, and other methods, are available in later sessions. I will introduce these when you’ve reached a certain level of experience.
The use of marijuana is optional. It can help deepen relaxation, increase awareness in the body and mind, and intensify sensation and release.
Onlyfans
My current OF is now by request. Make requests for photos or short clips and if it’s reasonable I’ll post on the timeline. Sort of a communal custom content situation. I’ll only post by request going forward, videos with toys here and there, but not too often. My favorite old content and massage collabs will still be there there 🫡
Anonymous Testimonials
“I recently experienced a somatic tantra massage with Finn, which was something I’d previously not had any experience with. Finn was highly knowledgeable and before we started he walked me through how it could help surface any number of emotions or reactions, and to try let that happen organically. This guidance helped me feel open and prepared, and that I was in really good hands. in my case as the session progressed I felt an incredible body high come on that was both exhilarating and deeply relaxing. The sensations were unlike anything I'd ever experienced, with waves of energy coursing through me. I felt body tingling and a sensation of being awe-struck, and ultimately a swelling of pure joy and connection. Finn did an absolutely incredible job of guiding me through it all, and making me feel so comfortable and well looked after. I can tell he is passionate about his craft and his training, it truly shows in his work.”
“I contacted Finn and, miraculously, he was available for later in the day. He arrived punctually, with is table, a warming pad and even an oil warmer, totally self contained. Finn is an attractive young man, beautiful body, gentle and totally present from the moment he arrives. He required reading his website, which is both informative and helpful, in fact it was his website that convinced me to go ahead and request a session.I have had experience with tantric breathing and massage in the past but nothing comes near to what Finn offers and delivers, I have never experienced anything quite like it. Finn’s technique incorporates different styles resulting in various levels of intense intimacy, body closeness, breathing routines, muscle massage and release. There was never an issue of time from when he began asking about my concerns, possible questions or needs to the leisurely executed massage even remaining present as I slowly resurfaced, generously going over the time I had requested.I cannot recommend Finn highly enough if you are seriously interested in body awareness, somatic healing or dealing with trauma, he has a unique gift, not to be missed.”
"Finn was professional, and very attuned to my body and my needs. He made adjustments to my tension and was very respectful. He took the time to offer my nervousness exactly what it required, and I can't recommend him enough. I'll definitely be using his intuitive touch again. Thank you Finn! 5 stars!”
“I just had what I have to say is the best physical and mental massage experience. Finn is professional, was right on time, excellent communication, and had everything ready to provide the amazing massage.
His knowledge and expertise of the somatic tantra massage was evident as I experienced exactly what he said would happen.
I usually have difficulty releasing control of myself to anyone but with Finn's calm demeanor, I was able to relax and enjoy the moment. I've never had an experience like this before-it was incredible.
I could go on and on so I'll wrap it up by recommending, wholeheartedly, that you contact Finn and set up a session. You will not regret it!”
“My experience with Finn exceeded all my expectations. After thoroughly exploring Finn’s website and following his journey, I realized, with the guidance of my therapist, that Finn was the right person to accompany me on this path. He is kind, compassionate, and possesses a wealth of knowledge, making him a delightful presence to be around. His energy is truly contagious.
Today, I had my first session with Finn, and the experience was quite a rollercoaster of emotions. I shifted from feelings of euphoria to nausea, then to a surge of energy, excitement, and back to euphoria again. As I absorbed Finn's words, I allowed myself to let go. At one moment, the room darkened, only to be suddenly filled with intense light. When I opened my eyes, I was enveloped in a sense of peace and tranquility, feeling truly alive—almost as if I had been reborn.
Describing this experience in words is a challenge, as language falls short in conveying its depth. I highly recommend it, and I welcome any questions you may have. Having dealt with PTSD and childhood sexual traumas, I emerged from this session feeling confident and empowered. Thank you, Finn. I look forward to our next meeting!“
“If you read Finn’s profile carefully, you will understand that the type of session you are about to receive is going to be different. But what you don’t understand is how he takes care of you during the session. If you release expectations, he guides you through a body and mind transformation. A transformation that truly allows your body to release stress on a number of levels. Add to the experience that he is incredibly sweet and caring, you can be assured that this is time well spent and a gift to yourself. Trust him and his expertise…and you will not be disappointed.”
Somatic Tantra
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"And you? When will you begin that long journey into yourself?"
-Rumi
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I am exposed to new people, experiences, teachings, and methods everyday that deepen my knowledge and understanding of the path I’m on, my site will evolve over time with me to share new things and communicate to the best of my ability the indescribable experience I wish to share with you…
01 Oct, 2024 - updated site
Somatic Tantra: Harnessing Sexual Energy for Healing and Higher States of Consciousness
Somatic Tantra isn’t sex, nor is it practiced with the intent to ejaculate. Instead, it utilizes sexual energy, breath work, bodywork, pelvic floor work, meditation, and physical connection which not only lead to far more intense full mind/body experiences that last minutes beyond typical orgasms, but are powerful ways to shift the nervous system from the sympathetic to the parasympathetic, making the body far more receptive to bodywork intended to release chronic patterns of tension caused by stress, injury, repetitive physical stress on the body, postural habits, or trauma. Through the deep state of relaxation achieved in this work and release of tension we can discover new or forgotten parts of ourselves and open the door to higher states of consciousness (I have a separate page in the dropdown menu detailing the physiology of how events and emotions can become trapped and create distortions in both the mind and body).